But now there are additional things that have to be done
in order to demonstrate the emotional bond which need not be any sexual
bond. Know here that the landlord may challenge at the point of
succession and therefore this bond can be demonstrated by doing the
following:
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Open
a joint bank account with your roommate joint and survivor.
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Name
your roommate as beneficiary of your life insurance policy.
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Go
to family gatherings, dinners, etc. with your roommate and make sure
you have photographs of the occasions.
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Take
trips with your roommate and make sure you have photographs of these
trips.
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Go
down to the Municipal Building and obtain a domestic partners
certificate.
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Appoint your roommate executor of your will and leave a substantial
bequest to your roommate.
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If
one of you travels, send postcards and gifts home to the other and
make sure all this is documented.
Now
not everything I have here listed need be done. But, the more that you
do will make the claim stronger in building the record for succession.
You can also consider adoption as an alternative which would by law make
your roommate an immediate family member. (While you usually think of
adoption in terms of children, there is nothing in the law that stops an
adult person from adopting another adult.)